What is Love?

Love is a kind of feeling towards the opposite gender (or in some weird cases - same gender). It is a mutual kind of feelings that is far more than the usual what we called Friendship. It does not contain the meaning that one can control the other party or let the other party gain control without your consent.

Controlling someone is not love, nor is it care. Just like one of friends. You can say he is being controlled by his girlfriend (in his terms is called darling, honey, whatsoever), but in realistic he is not being controlled at all. He is doing things according to his own will and not this girlfriend's will.

Let us take a look on another example. Last time, before my girlfriend was with me, she was with another boyfriend (for your information, I am rated number 7 in her boyfriend's list, not because of not good-looking or what, it is because of that I am the number 7 suitor to woo her). The boyfriend actually try to control by restricting her to certain things such as cannot meet this particular friends and must be home by a certain time.

Controlling someone will bring only fear to the other party. Do not attempt to control someone. Respect his or her freedom. Respecting each other's freedom will ensure that relationship can stay as long as the term called eternity.

Look on the bright side of things. Just because a girl you break off with a group of friends or just because that group of friends keep on making things difficult for you is not your wise choice. Friends should be rated once whereas girlfriend are to be ranked first. Rated and ranked are both different words. Unsure of the terms? Check the dictionary to improve your vocabulary then.

Everywhere I go, there just seems to be couples around, some holding hands, some kissing, some just, you know, hugging. Yes, hugging and kissing actually makes you closer to the other party then sex. I am not saying making love is not important, but having a healthy relationship should not only cover making love. Learn to be someone that can actually love a girl or boy without making love, as you just can't simply make love in public, right?

Everyone got their own explanations for LOVE. However, don't let the word affects your life. Live with it and let it be part of your lifestyle. Remember, it is your life, it is your fight. Choose your way in the path of your life and bear whatever consequences that comes with it. Just like my secondary school motto: Choose Wisely, Face Consequences Squarely.

Ok. Now everything should be in order by now, so let just say goodbye ok? Don't worry too much, you will hear from me soon, as long as my next off day is here! Good luck in your relationship and remember:

Don't regret!

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